Itchy Head

Everybody wants to be rich.  It seems everybody wants to be rich in future. In a distant 'some day'... If I tell you that you don't have to wait for that 'some day' to be rich, to feel rich and to act rich, then? You don't believe? This is not hoax. I'm not talking out of nothing. It is here and now. I know, you have started calculating your money in your pockets and your bank and the loans, which you have to pay. Now, you would start doubting me as what I am talking about? So, let get to the point. START WITH YOURSELF. Are you living the way, you want to live when you would be rich?  Are you using all the resources bestowed on you by your circumstances. Are you tapping them all to get the best out of them? Think.  We are as rich and as poor as we think and perceive.  I have seen people who store things. All the nice things are stored to be used when 'some special day' would arrive or ...

It's an irony of today's times.  Girls are nurtured, educated, motivated to be career oriented but when it comes to be in marital bliss, they are given hordes of advice, apprehensions and sometimes unwanted support. I do agree that to settle in a new environment of a new home, they need emotional and motivational support but sometimes doting parents forget the line of their care and affection. INITIALLY EVERYTHING IS HUNKY DORY. Change may cause initial inconvenience and could be full of surprises and shocks, but gradually our mind adapts and defends what is unacceptable. There are a number of emotional messages going around the social media and we all forward and feel so good about those 'precious daughters messages'. It's so nice to see people care so much for their daughters and it's for good change in mind set. It's good but the hypocrisy starts when that strong, well educated daughter is married off. One o...

You don't love me now! Well, alright...accept it.  If you are a man, you would have heard it many times and if you are a woman, you would have uttered or at least had such thoughts many times. If not, then congratulations, you are from some other planet! Beware, get alerted and set your alarms high if ever, next time you even think such words, or your spouse even mentions them. They can wreck your mental peace, relationship and serenity.  So, what do these words exactly mean? Though, it can be a man as well who may have such thoughts.  But, generally, women express themselves before venturing out for a new love.  Whereas, men just escape to greener pastures or get themselves involved somewhere to shut such thoughts to never let them out. So whichever side of the fence you are, don't suppress the thoughts. Express and explore the solutions. It's sure that you can not escape them but at least you can guard yourself against an impending d...