Our words have power

By Dimple
'Don't mind her words,she's sweet by heart.' 'She's a pure soul.'
I looked up in astonishment. Do I have to eat her heart? Why should I be bothered whether she's a pure soul or not?

I'm hurt by her words and that's all what I know!

How easy it is to just blurt out anything on anybody and pacify later by saying - 'She's sweet by heart,don't mind her.'

Wouldn't it be better that she should've herself minded her words before bringing them out on others and willingly hurt them.

It's unjustifiable to just open your big mouth on anybody and expect them to be just normal with you a second later.

We get hurt too.

If the same treatment would've been given to you, wouldn't you mind? No matter how pure is your soul?

If you're really so pure and sweet by heart then please mind your words and others' feelings before uttering out.




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